Whenever, wherever and however he wants it. With that man, she is the obedient woman submitting to all his sexual desires. It seems like what women say is that her husband will only get sex if he behaves according to her standards and he will get sex on the wife’s terms.īut those terms do not apply to the man she is having an affair with. Quote – For women, it’s a result of emotional deprivation: the husband is too wrapped up in his job or his hobbies or whatever else to give his wife the time and attention she needs.įrom what I have heard women say over the years, that is SOMETIMES the reason but not the major reason. Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.Īs a 59yr old widower, I can speak from personal experience and from what I have heard other men and women say. This is a huge part of keeping your marriages strong. Don’t deprive your husbands, women! Build your homes up and be a willing partner for your husband. It’s a good thing when used within the bonds of marriage. God gave them this strong sex drive to marry and bear children. Yes, if the husband begins to look at porn or have an affair, he will stand guilty for his sin but the wives will stand guilty for depriving their husbands.Īs Suzanne said, going without sex is a catastrophe for men. God warns of this happening if we deprive our husbands! He commands us not to deprive our husbands because of this. I know women hate to hear this, but it’s true. If you don’t, you have some part in his seeking out porn or an affair if he does. If you are married, you are to fulfill that need for your husband. They want a wife who is available to them to meet this need. He also commands us to not deprive our husbands for lack of self-control. The Apostle Paul commands those that burn to marry for it is better to marry than to burn. They are tearing their homes down with their own hands. They falsely believe that it’s not part of the marriage vow that they made to their husbands. It’s as if these wives have decided they don’t want it, so they don’t want to give it. Many, if not most, of the men he mentors tells him that their wives don’t want to give them sex.
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This is a quote from Suzanne Venker’s new book “ How to Be a Wife.” My husband mentors men. Many wives are all too happy to go years without sex.
That’s a great example of the research shows men and women have affairs for different reasons. For women, it’s a result of emotional deprivation: the husband is too wrapped up in his job or his hobbies or whatever else to give his wife the time and attention she needs.
For men, it’s almost always a result of a sexless marriage. “Research shows men and women have affairs for different reasons.
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